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Real Talk Teaching

February 6, 2016 by Tamara

Teaching is real.
It is raw.
It is messy.
It. is. hard.
It is also relational.
It is impactful.
It is life changing and life affirming.
It is my life and I wouldn’t change it for anything at all.
That does not mean that I’m going to spread rainbows and glitter and tell everyone to be happy all the time because telling the truth is hard to hear.
Having parents misunderstand you and make unrealistic demands on your time is HARD.
Having your time micromanaged down to things that you could care less about is HARD.
Being compared to other teachers with data and being shamed into improving your practice is HARD.
Being the only teacher of color in a school and looking for authentic discussions and community is HARD.
Having your time taken up with pointless meetings is HARD.
And on…and on…and on.
It. is. HARD.
We certainly can not live in that space, and I am not advocating that we do.
I choose to live my life transparently and authentically, and if that means that I post on the realities of teaching that show the not so fun side, so be it.
I’m not going to be shamed into silence by anyone.
I’m just tired of being made to feel like I’m cranky, or harsh, or bringing down the profession because I choose to share the good and the bad of this #teacherlife.
So here is what I’m advocating.

Let’s stop pretending it’s not hard.  Let’s stop pretending that if we just put a smile on it, it will be better.  Let’s start being the change we want to see in our schools.  Let’s start using our voices to talk about the change our kids need…AND that our teachers need.  Veteran teachers…I’m asking you…no, really, I’m begging you. Find a rookie teacher and mentor them.  Really mentor them.  Tell them that their voice matters…even if it only matters to YOU.  Make them know that this job is worth it…in SPITE of how hard it is.  And please…for the love of teaching…please let them know its okay to have good days and bad days.
No one is perfect.
Please.  Let’s all be real…AND messy…TOGETHER.

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    1. Jessica says

      July 6, 2016 at 4:56 pm

      Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I have not blogged in so long simply because I could not put a pretty face on everything anymore. And couldn’t keep up with it all. I so appreciate your honest, breathe of fresh air post!

      • Tamara says

        July 6, 2016 at 5:00 pm

        I understand. I was sick most of last year and blogging was SO TOUGH. Now that my iron is up and my surgery is behind me, I am feeling empowered! A word of advice? Blog on some of what you are feeling…and what you do to keep coming back everyday. You are not the only one struggling. You are one of many. Just make sure that you keep pushing and don’t quit!! Our kids need you!!! Xoxo

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